Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Security is a Lie

Sometimes I think, I am having good enough experience to sustain the regular life, but still sometimes insecurity comes in the way.I don't know how this question arises of insecurity when everything is going good?
I realized...
It’s impossible to convince ourselves to not feel insecure, how can I ever guarantee that my life will be perfect? Insecurity is created because our future is uncertain and that’s a fact – life is uncertain 100%. There are no guarantees. So you have every reason to feel terribly insecure.

The truth is that security is a lie. There is no such thing called stability or security as far as life is concerned.
It meanders along at its own pace creating and destroying at the blink of an eye. When you can’t know for sure, with 100% certainty, what will happen to you the next day, is it not naive to look for security in life?


We all have areas in our lives that need improvement–whether it’s our careers, relationships, fitness or just overall mental and emotional state. Although making changes in any of these categories sounds like a huge undertaking, it all starts with making goals and taking that first step. Sometimes even that sounds daunting and we need a little bit of inspiration before we can take any steps. That’s when it’s time to take some advice from people who are already on the self-improvement journey..and I am 100% sure it will help you !!!!!

Sunday, August 26, 2012


ज़िन्दगी इस  कदर  हमको  रुलाती  रही!
हर  ख़ुशी  पास  आने  से  पहले  दूर  जाती  रही !!
ग़म  से  नाता  था  शायद  अपना  पिछले  जनम  से !
तभी  तो  हर  ख़ुशी  ग़म  में  बदल  जाती  रही !!
चाहा  जो  कुछ  भी  हमने  ना  मिला  हमको!
एक  अधूरी  सी  चाहत  बन  के  रह  गया  सब  कुछ!!
की  थी  कोशिश  कभी  मैंने  भी  कुछ  जीतने  की !
वहा मेरी  किस्मत  मुझे  ही  हारती  रही!!
लड़  भी  लेते  हम  मुकदर  से  गर  कोई  अपना  साथ  होता !
और  बदल  भी  देते  हम  शायद  अपनी  तकदीर  को !!
पर  भागते रहे  जिस  मंजिल    को  पाने  की  खातिर !
वोह  मंजिल  भी  हमसे हमेशा  दूर  जाती  रही !!
ऐसा  नहीं  के  कोई  नहीं  था  हमारा  यहाँ !
हर  रिश्ता  है  बनाया  और  अपनाया  हमने !!
और  हर  रिश्ते  को  बनाने  की  खातिर  कोसिस  भी  की थी  हमने !
पर  शायद  कच्ची  रह  जाती  थी  गाँठ  हर  रिश्ते  की !
जो  थोडा  सा  खींचने  पे  ही  खुल  जाती  रही !!
बहुत  रोये  है  हम  हसने  के  बाद  हर  वक़्त !
और  बहते  भी  रहे  है  यह  पागल  आंसू  इन  आँखों  से
क्या  करू  झूठी  हसी  आती  नहीं  जिस  से  हर  गम  को  छुपा  सकू
फिर  भी    उम्मीद  में  जी  जाए रहे है   !!!!!!!!!!!