tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32303453436198309962024-03-06T04:13:03.537-08:00Fix the falseAjay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-85175198503266187872012-10-09T04:35:00.000-07:002012-10-09T04:35:42.601-07:00Security is a Lie<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Sometimes I think, I am having good enough experience to sustain the regular life, but still sometimes insecurity comes in the way.I don't know how this question arises of insecurity when everything is going good?<br />
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It’s impossible to convince ourselves to not feel insecure, how can I ever guarantee that my life will be perfect? Insecurity is created because our future is uncertain and that’s a fact – life is uncertain 100%. There are no guarantees. So you have every reason to feel terribly insecure.<br />
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The truth is that security is a lie. There is no such thing called stability or security as far as life is concerned.<br />
It meanders along at its own pace creating and destroying at the blink of an eye. When you can’t know for sure, with 100% certainty, what will happen to you the next day, is it not naive to look for security in life?<br />
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Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-87880469565277273342012-10-09T04:27:00.001-07:002012-10-09T04:27:44.983-07:00Improvement<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">We all have areas in our lives that need improvement–whether it’s our careers, relationships, fitness or just overall mental and emotional state. Although making changes in any of these categories sounds like a huge undertaking, it all starts with making goals and taking that first step. Sometimes even that sounds daunting and we need a little bit of inspiration before we can take any steps. That’s when it’s time to take some advice from people who are already on the self-improvement journey..and I am 100% sure it will help you !!!!!</span></div>
Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-48023209897390123202012-08-26T05:48:00.001-07:002012-08-26T05:48:07.005-07:00KYA KAHU ZINDAGI TUMSE?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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ज़िन्दगी इस कदर हमको रुलाती रही!</div>
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हर ख़ुशी पास आने से पहले दूर जाती रही !!</div>
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ग़म से नाता था शायद अपना पिछले जनम से !</div>
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तभी तो हर ख़ुशी ग़म में बदल जाती रही !!</div>
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चाहा जो कुछ भी हमने ना मिला हमको! <br />एक अधूरी सी चाहत बन के रह गया सब कुछ!! <br />की थी कोशिश कभी मैंने भी कुछ जीतने की !<br />वहा मेरी किस्मत मुझे ही हारती रही!!</div>
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लड़ भी लेते हम मुकदर से गर कोई अपना साथ होता !<br />और बदल भी देते हम शायद अपनी तकदीर को !!<br />पर भागते रहे जिस मंजिल को पाने की खातिर !<br />वोह मंजिल भी हमसे हमेशा दूर जाती रही !!</div>
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ऐसा नहीं के कोई नहीं था हमारा यहाँ !<br />हर रिश्ता है बनाया और अपनाया हमने !!<br />और हर रिश्ते को बनाने की खातिर कोसिस भी की थी हमने !</div>
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पर शायद कच्ची रह जाती थी गाँठ हर रिश्ते की !<br />जो थोडा सा खींचने पे ही खुल जाती रही !!</div>
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बहुत रोये है हम हसने के बाद हर वक़्त !<br />और बहते भी रहे है यह पागल आंसू इन आँखों से </div>
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क्या करू झूठी हसी आती नहीं जिस से हर गम को छुपा सकू <br />फिर भी उम्मीद में जी जाए रहे है !!!!!!!!!!!</div>
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Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-42271129197794463812012-01-01T01:30:00.000-08:002012-01-01T01:35:40.256-08:00कभी अनसुलझी हुई पहेली सी लगती हो !Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-62589003100693509922011-11-09T09:04:00.000-08:002011-11-09T09:05:42.974-08:00Jee Lo Zindagi Jee Bhar ke!एक कल हमारे पीछे था एक कल हमारे बाद!<br />आज आज की बात करना हमेशा बस हमारे साथ!<br />हमसे ही कल बनेगा हमारा आज के अच्छे के बाद!<br />आज जितना खूबसूरत होगा उसका शायद जवाब न होगा कल के पास!<br />कल कुछ कल कर भी न पाए कर लो आज को तुम इतना आबाद !<br />... हम है तो है ये आज और रहेगा हमारा कल !<br />अगर aaj हम नहीं तो ना रहेगा हमारा कल आज के बाद !<br /><br />So lets live in out today first to make our tomorrows better...... :)Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-40939502021470650472011-11-03T07:56:00.000-07:002011-11-03T07:59:45.542-07:00हकीकतये ज़िन्दगी भी ना जाने क्या खेल खेलती रहती है<br />कभी लगता है अब तो मंजिल के पास है<br />फिर एक ही पल में दूरियाँ पैदा कर देती है<br />फिर भी ना जाने हम किस उम्मीद में ये आँस लगाये रहते है<br />की शायद आज नहीं तो कल हम जो चाहते है वो मिलेगा<br />और जीना का यही जस्बा आज नहीं तो कल हमे हमारी मंजिल तक पंहुचा देता है!!!!!!!!Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-76085096351288448562011-05-01T19:42:00.000-07:002011-05-01T19:43:30.827-07:00The Excellence for own satisfaction not for others!A German once visited a temple under construction where he saw a sculptor making an idol of God. Suddenly he noticed a similar idol lying nearby. Surprised, he asked the sculptor, "Do you need two statues of the same idol?" "No," said the sculptor without looking up, "We need only one, but the first one got damaged at the last stage." The gentleman examined the idol and found no apparent damage. "Where is the damage?" he asked. "There is a scratch on the nose of the idol." said the sculptor, still busy with his work. "Where are you going to install the idol?"<br /><br />The sculptor replied that it would be installed on a pillar twenty feet high. "If the idol is that far, who is going to know that there is a scratch on the nose?" the gentleman asked... The sculptor stopped his work, looked up at the gentleman, smiled and said, "I will know it." The desire to excel is exclusive of the fact whether someone else appreciates it or not. "Excellence" is a drive from inside, not outside. Excellence is not for someone else to notice but for your own satisfaction and efficiency...Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-62870234723474393322011-03-19T03:19:00.001-07:002011-03-19T03:19:56.967-07:00तीन पेड़ो की कथा<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Georgia, Utopia, 'Palatino Linotype', Palatino, serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; "><p style="text-align: center; ">यह एक बहुत पुरानी बात है| किसी नगर के समीप एक जंगल तीन वृक्ष थे| वे तीनों अपने सुख-दुःख और सपनों के बारे में एक दूसरे से बातें किया करते थे| एक दिन पहले वृक्ष ने कहा – “मैं खजाना रखने वाला बड़ा सा बक्सा बनना चाहता हूँ| मेरे भीतर हीरे-जवाहरात और दुनिया की सबसे कीमती निधियां भरी जाएँ. मुझे बड़े हुनर और परिश्रम से सजाया जाय, नक्काशीदार बेल-बूटे बनाए जाएँ, सारी दुनिया मेरी खूबसूरती को निहारे, ऐसा मेरा सपना है|”</p><p style="text-align: justify; "></p><p style="text-align: justify; "></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">दूसरे वृक्ष ने कहा – “मैं तो एक विराट जलयान बनना चाहता हूँ| ताकि बड़े-बड़े राजा और रानी मुझपर सवार हों और दूर देश की यात्राएं करें, मैं अथाह समंदर की जलराशि में हिलोरें लूं, मेरे भीतर सभी सुरक्षित महसूस करें और सबका यकीन मेरी शक्ति में हो… मैं यही चाहता हूँ|” अंत में तीसरे वृक्ष ने कहा – “मैं तो इस जंगल का सबसे बड़ा और ऊंचा वृक्ष ही बनना चाहता हूँ| लोग दूर से ही मुझे देखकर पहचान लें, वे मुझे देखकर ईश्वर का स्मरण करें, और मेरी शाखाएँ स्वर्ग तक पहुंचें… मैं संसार का सर्वश्रेष्ठ वृक्ष ही बनना चाहता हूँ|”</p><p style="text-align: justify; "></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">ऐसे ही सपने देखते-देखते कुछ साल गुज़र गए. एक दिन उस जंगल में कुछ लकड़हारे आए| उनमें से जब एक ने पहले वृक्ष को देखा तो अपने साथियों से कहा – “ये जबरदस्त वृक्ष देखो! इसे बढ़ई को बेचने पर बहुत पैसे मिलेंगे.” और उसने पहले वृक्ष को काट दिया| वृक्ष तो खुश था, उसे यकीन था कि बढ़ई उससे खजाने का बक्सा बनाएगा|</p><p style="text-align: justify; "></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">दूसरे वृक्ष के बारे में लकड़हारे ने कहा – “यह वृक्ष भी लंबा और मजबूत है| मैं इसे जहाज बनाने वालों को बेचूंगा”| दूसरा वृक्ष भी खुश था, उसका चाहा भी पूरा होने वाला था|</p><p style="text-align: justify; "></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">लकड़हारे जब तीसरे वृक्ष के पास आए तो वह भयभीत हो गया|वह जानता था कि अगर उसे काट दिया गया तो उसका सपना पूरा नहीं हो पाएगा| एक लकड़हारा बोला – “इस वृक्ष से मुझे कोई खास चीज नहीं बनानी है इसलिए इसे मैं ले लेता हूं”| और उसने तीसरे वृक्ष को काट दिया|</p><p style="text-align: justify; "></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">पहले वृक्ष को एक बढ़ई ने खरीद लिया और उससे पशुओं को चारा खिलानेवाला कठौता बनाया|कठौते को एक पशुगृह में रखकर उसमें भूसा भर दिया गया| बेचारे वृक्ष ने तो इसकी कभी कल्पना भी नहीं की थी|दूसरे वृक्ष को काटकर उससे मछली पकड़नेवाली छोटी नौका बना दी गई| भव्य जलयान बनकर राजा-महाराजाओं को लाने-लेजाने का उसका सपना भी चूर-चूर हो गया| तीसरे वृक्ष को लकड़ी के बड़े-बड़े टुकड़ों में काट लिया गया और टुकड़ों को अंधेरी कोठरी में रखकर लोग भूल गए|</p><p style="text-align: justify; "></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">एक दिन उस पशुशाला में एक आदमी अपनी पत्नी के साथ आया और स्त्री ने वहां एक बच्चे को जन्म दिया|वे बच्चे को चारा खिलानेवाले कठौते में सुलाने लगे। कठौता अब पालने के काम आने लगा| पहले वृक्ष ने स्वयं को धन्य माना कि अब वह संसार की सबसे मूल्यवान निधि अर्थात एक शिशु को आसरा दे रहा था|<br /></p><p style="text-align: justify; "></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">समय बीतता गया और सालों बाद कुछ नवयुवक दूसरे वृक्ष से बनाई गई नौका में बैठकर मछली पकड़ने के लिए गए, उसी समय बड़े जोरों का तूफान उठा और नौका तथा उसमें बैठे युवकों को लगा कि अब कोई भी जीवित नहीं बचेगा। एक युवक नौका में निश्चिंत सा सो रहा था। उसके साथियों ने उसे जगाया और तूफान के बारे में बताया। वह युवक उठा और उसने नौका में खड़े होकर उफनते समुद्र और झंझावाती हवाओं से कहा – “शांत हो जाओ”, और तूफान थम गया| यह देखकर दूसरे वृक्ष को लगा कि उसने दुनिया के परम ऐश्वर्यशाली सम्राट को सागर पार कराया है |<br /></p><p style="text-align: justify; "></p><p style="text-align: justify; ">तीसरे वृक्ष के पास भी एक दिन कुछ लोग आये और उन्होंने उसके दो टुकड़ों को जोड़कर एक घायल आदमी के ऊपर लाद दिया। ठोकर खाते, गिरते-पड़ते उस आदमी का सड़क पर तमाशा देखती भीड़ अपमान करती रही। वे जब रुके तब सैनिकों ने लकड़ी के सलीब पर उस आदमी के हाथों-पैरों में कीलें ठोंककर उसे पहाड़ी की चोटी पर खड़ा कर दिया|दो दिनों के बाद रविवार को तीसरे वृक्ष को इसका बोध हुआ कि उस पहाड़ी पर वह स्वर्ग और ईश्वर के सबसे समीप पहुंच गया था क्योंकि ईसा मसीह को उसपर सूली पर चढ़ाया गया था।<br /></p><p style="text-align: justify; "><span style="font-size: 17px; "><span style="font-weight: bold; "></span><span style="font-weight: bold; ">निष्कर्ष</span><span style="font-weight: bold; "> :-- </span><span style="font-weight: bold; ">सब</span><span style="font-weight: bold; "> कुछ अच्छा करने के बाद भी जब हमारे काम बिगड़ते जा रहे हों तब हमें यह समझना चाहिए कि शायद ईश्वर ने हमारे लिए कुछ बेहतर सोचा है| यदि आप उसपर यकीन बरक़रार रखेंगे तो वह आपको नियामतों से नवाजेगा|प्रत्येक वृक्ष को वह मिल गया जिसकी उसने ख्वाहिश की थी, लेकिन उस रूप में नहीं मिला जैसा वे चाहते थे। हम नहीं जानते कि ईश्वर ने हमारे लिए क्या सोचा है या ईश्वर का मार्ग हमारा मार्ग है या नहीं… लेकिन उसका मार्ग ही सर्वश्रेष्ठ मार्ग है| </span></span></p></span>Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-55756521426354272122011-03-19T03:13:00.000-07:002011-03-19T03:14:50.685-07:00Win your heart!!!!!!!!!!!<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Georgia, Utopia, 'Palatino Linotype', Palatino, serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px; ">एक व्यक्ति एक प्रसिद्ध संत के पास गया और बोला गुरुदेव मुझे जीवन के सत्य का पूर्ण ज्ञान है | मैंने शास्त्रों का काफी ध्यान से मैंने पढ़ा है | फिर भी मेरा मन किसी काम में नही लगता | जब भी कोई काम करने के लिए बैठता हूँ तो मन भटकने लगता है तो मै उस काम को छोड़ देता हूँ | इस अस्थिरता का क्या कारण है ? कृपया मेरी इस समस्या का समाधान कीजिये |<br /><br />संत ने उसे रात तक इंतज़ार करने के लिए कहा रात होने पर वह उसे एक झील के पास ले गया और झील के अन्दर चाँद का प्रतिविम्ब को दिखा कर बोले एक चाँद आकाश में और एक झील में, तुमारा मन इस झील की तरह है तुम्हारे पास ज्ञान तो है लेकिन तुम उसको इस्तेमाल करने की बजाये सिर्फ उसे अपने मन में लाकर बैठे हो, ठीक उसी तरह जैसे झील असली चाँद का प्रतिविम्ब लेकर बैठी है |<br /><br />तुमारा ज्ञान तभी सार्थक हो सकता है जब तुम उसे व्यहार में एकाग्रता और संयम के साथ अपनाने की कोशिश करो | झील का चाँद तो मात्र एक भ्रम है तुम्हे अपने कम में मन लगाने के लिए आकाश के चन्द्रमा की तरह बनाना है, झील का चाँद तो पानी में पत्थर गिराने पर हिलाने लगता है जिस तरह तुमारा मन जरा-जरा से बात पर डोलने लगता है |<br /><br />तुम्हे अपने ज्ञान और विवेक को जीवन में नियम पूर्वक लाना होगा और अपने जीवन को जितना सार्थक और लक्ष्य हासिल करने में लगाना होगा खुद को आकाश के चाँद के बराबर बनाओ शुरू में थोड़ी परेशानी आयेगी पर कुछ समय बात ही तुम्हे इसकी आदत हो जायेगी |<br /><br /><span style="font-weight: bold; ">निष्कर्ष</span> :- मन के हालत के चलते इन्सान को अपनी प्रतिभा का सही उपयोग करना सीखना चाहिए बजाये मायूस होकर बैठने के |</span>Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-75640448428842608432011-03-17T01:42:00.000-07:002011-03-17T02:11:03.388-07:00खोज जारी है आस अधूरी है..................एक बार एक छात्र ने अध्यापक से पूछा की प्यार क्या है " अध्यापक बोला की जवाब देने से पहले मैं चाहूँगा की तुम मक्के के खेत में जाओ और जो सबसे बड़ा मक्का हो उसको उखाड़ के लेके आओ मेरे पास! लेकिन हां तुम वाहा एक ही बार जा सकते हो और एक ही बार मक्का तोड़ सकते हो!<br />इस तरह वो छात्र खेत में पहुच गया और उसने देखा की एक मक्के का फल बहुत बड़ा है लेकिन उसने सोचा की ऐसे और भी तो मक्के के फल होंगे और वो और बड़े की तलाश की में आगे की ओर बढ़ता चला गया बहुत आगे जाने के बाद उसको एहसास हुआ की बड़े की तलाश में वो अच्छे और बड़े फल तो पीछे छोड़ आया है, बाद में वो अफ़सोस करते हुए खाली हाथ वापिस आ गया ! अध्यापक ने बोला की यही प्यार है, आप हमेशा बेहतर की तलाश में रहते है और बाद में आपको एहसास होता है की वो तो आपको पहले ही मिला था लेकिन आपने उसे ऐसे ही जाने दिया !<br /><br />छात्र ने पूछा की फिर शादी क्या है? अध्यापक ने फिर उसे खेत में भेज दिया शर्त इस बार भी वही थी! लेकिन छात्र ने इस बार कोई गलती नहीं की और तीसरी चौथी कतार तक पहुचते पहुचते एक मक्के का फल तोड़ लिया और खुसी खुसी अध्यापक के पास लौट आया! अध्यापक ने कहा तुमने इस बार इतने बड़े खेत में से केवल एक मक्के का फल तोडा और वापिस चले आये , क्योकि तुम्हे इसी मक्के के फल की तलाश थी ! जो बस अच्छा हो जिस पर तुम्हे भरोसा हो की जो तुमने पाया है वही सबसे अच्छा है ......और यही शादी है!!!<br />जीवन का सुख भटकने में नहीं बल्कि जो पाया है उसमे खुश रहने में है !!!!Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-19129290628921916702011-03-14T01:38:00.000-07:002011-03-14T21:55:18.967-07:00Marriage<p>It is well said that marriages are made in heaven and celebrated on earth.It brings significant stability and substance to human relationships, which is otherwise incomplete.The key to successful marriage is love, understanding, mutual respect, trust, commitment and togetherness.</p><p>I had lot of expectation from my marriage and finally the day has come to make him true.Marriage is the relatioship of mutual understanding and I hope we will made this quote possible by our relationship and trust.</p><p>There are three common word Love, Trust and Peace are the foundation of any good relationship. These things can be achieved only by a good relationship and mutual understanding.</p>Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-40106689971075012012011-02-12T21:25:00.000-08:002011-02-12T21:26:37.469-08:00Happy Valentine DayHappy Valentine day to all the lovers who believe in love and commitment.Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-69935379943458021742010-12-17T08:56:00.000-08:002010-12-17T09:00:38.234-08:00Little Things makes big differences!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; "><div style="font-size: 14pt; "><div align="center"><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; ">As you might </span></span><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; ">remember</span></span><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; ">, the head of a company survived</span></span></span><i style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span ><span style="font-style: italic; font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><b><u></u></b></i><i style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><b><u><span style="font-weight: bold; "><br /><span >9/11 because his son started kindergarten</span></span></u></b></i><i style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><u><span ><span style="font-style: italic; font-size: 13.5pt; ">. </span></span></u></i><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><br /><span >Another fellow was alive because it was</span></span></span><i style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span ><span style="font-style: italic; font-size: 13.5pt; "><span > </span><u><br /><span >His turn to bring donuts.</span></u></span></span></i><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><br /><span >One woman was late because her </span></span></span><i style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><u><span ><span style="font-style: italic; font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><span >Alarm clock didn't go off in time.</span></span></span></u></i><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><br /><span >One was late because of being stuck on the NJ Turnpike</span></span></span><i style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><u><span ><span style="font-style: italic; font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><span >Because of an auto accident.</span></span></span></u></i><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "> </span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><br /><span >One of them </span></span></span><i style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><u><span ><span style="font-style: italic; font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><span >Missed his bus.</span></span></span></u></i><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><br /><span >One spilled food on her clothes and had to take</span><i><u><span style="font-style: italic; "><br /><span >Time to change.</span></span></u></i></span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><br /><span >One's</span></span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><span > </span><i><u><span style="font-style: italic; "><br /><span >Car wouldn't start.</span></span></u></i></span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><br /><span >One couldn't</span></span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><span > </span><i><u><span style="font-style: italic; "><br /><span >Get a taxi.</span></span></u></i></span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><b style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; font-weight: bold; "><br /><br /><span >T</span></span></span></b><b style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; font-weight: bold; ">he one that struck me was the man </span></span></b><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><span >Who put on a new pair of shoes that morning,<br />Took the various means to get to work<br />But before he got there, he developed<br />a blister on his foot. </span></span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><br /><span >He stopped at a drugstore <b><u><span style="font-weight: bold; ">to buy a Band-Aid</span></u></b>. </span></span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; "><br /><span >That is why he is alive today..</span></span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /></span></span><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span><br /><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; ">Now when I am</span></span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br />Stuck in traffic</span></span><span ><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> , </span></span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><span >Miss an elevator,</span></span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><span >Turn back to answer a ringing telephone </span></span></span><span style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span ><span style="font-size: 10pt; ">...</span></span><br /></span></span><div align="center" style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span ></span></div><div style="font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><b><span ><span style="font-size: 12pt; font-weight: bold; ">All the little things that annoy me.<br />I think to myself,<br />This is exactly where</span></span></b><br /><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; ">God wants me to be</span></span><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br />At this very moment..</span></span><span ><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /></span></span></span><p align="center" style="text-align: center; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><span ></span></span><br /></span></p></div><p align="center" style="text-align: center; font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><span ></span></span> </span></p></div><p align="center" style="text-align: center; font-family: verdana, helvetica, sans-serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><span ></span></span> </span></p></div><p align="center" style="text-align: center; font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><strong><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; font-weight: normal; "></span></strong> </span></p><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br />Next time your morning seems to be </span></span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br />Going wrong </span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; ">, </span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br /><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; ">You can't seem to find the car keys, </span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br />You hit every traffic light,</span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br />Don't get mad or frustrated;</span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br />It May be just that</span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br />God is at work watching over you.</span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><br /></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 10pt; "> </span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><br /></span><span ><span style="font-size: 10pt; "><br /></span></span><span ><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br />May God continue to bless you </span></span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br />With all those annoying little things </span></span><span style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><span style="font-size: 13.5pt; "><br />And may you remember their possible purpose. </span></span><b style="font-family: tahoma, 'new york', times, serif; "><br /></b><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" >God Bless You all the Reders..................</span></span>Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-37042393518121261252010-10-30T10:58:00.000-07:002010-10-30T11:00:41.373-07:00How to Solve Worry Situations<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px; border-collapse: collapse; "><span ><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" >Step I<br />I analysed the situation fearlessly and honestly and figured out what was the worst that could possibly happen as a result of this failure<br /><br />Step II<br />After figuring out what was the worst that could possibly happen, I reconciled myself to accepting it, if necessary<br /><br />Step III<br />From that time on, I calmly devoted my time and energy to trying to improve upon the worst which I had already accepted mentally</span></span></span><span ><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /></span></span></span><span ><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br />One of the worst features about worrying is that it destroys our ability to concentrate. </span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" ><span class="Apple-style-span" ><br /><span >When we worry, our minds jump here and there and everywhere, </span><br /><span >and we lose all power of decision<br /></span><span ><br />Be willing to have it so because acceptance of what has happened is the first step in overcoming the consequences of any misfortune</span><span ><br /><br /></span><span ><br />True peace of mind comes from accepting the worst. Psychologically, </span><br /><span >I think, it means a release of energy</span><span ><br /></span><span ><br /></span><span ><br />When we have accepted the worst, we have nothing more to lose. </span><br /><span >And that automatically means-we have everything to gain!</span><span ><br /></span><span ><br />Calmness of mind gives us a new burst of energy </span><br /><span ><br />Ask yourself,' 'What is the worst that can possibly happen?'<br />Prepare to accept it if you have to:<br />Then calmly proceed to improve on the worst</span> .</span></span></span>Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-19300297099966481222010-10-30T10:48:00.000-07:002010-10-30T10:49:14.786-07:00Good Joke !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!In some remote village of India, one masterji is teaching the Mahabharat katha to class 6 students. He is at the 'krishnajanma' part of it.<br /><br />Masterji: "Kansa heard the akashwani that his sister's 8th child is going to kill him. He was furious. He ordered to put vasudev n devki behind the bars.<br /><br />First son is born, and kansa kills him by poisoning... Second one is born n kansa throws him off the mountain peak. Third one is born..."<br /><br />Now Ramu, who is smartest of the lot, puts up his hand. Masterji, I have a doubt (sounding nervous n confused)<br /><br />Masterji: "Ramu bete, whole India does not have doubt in mahabharata then how come u have one?"<br /><br />Ramu : Masterji, if Kansa knew that Devaki's 8th child was going to Kill him,<br /><br />WHY THE HELL DID HE PUT VASUDEV AND DEVAKI IN THE SAME CELL ?<br /><br />Masterji fainted........................Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-26854439926684022792010-10-27T23:46:00.000-07:002010-10-27T23:50:47.041-07:00Common Human Mentality<div align="center"><strong>Common Human Mentality </strong></div>They lose their health to make money and then lose their money to restore their health. By thinking anxiously about future, they forget the present, such that they live neither for the present nor for the future. They live as if they will never die, and they die as if they had never lived. So, Live & Let Live.............Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-50224431373623944992010-10-05T19:52:00.000-07:002010-10-05T19:56:10.127-07:00Oh My God........My plane was taking off from Delhi Airport. After it reached a comfortable cruising altitude, the captain made an announcement over the intercom, "Ladies and gentlemen, this is your captain speaking. Welcome to Indigo Flight , non-stop from Delhi to Hyderabad. The weather ahead is good and, therefore, we should have a smooth and uneventful flight. Now sit back and relax. OH, MY GOD!" Silence followed, and after a few minutes the captain came back on the intercom and said, "Ladies and Gentlemen, I am so sorry if I scared you earlier; but, while I was talking, the flight attendant brought me a cup of coffee and spilled the hot coffee in my lap. You should see the front of my pants!"<br />A passenger on the plane said, "That's nothing. You should see the back of my pants!"Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-81407192785106800632010-10-05T04:12:00.000-07:002010-10-05T04:20:02.820-07:00Seven wonders of the worldDo you think that the seven wonders which we know from our childhood are the real wonders of the world....No at least I don't believe in this.Because these all are the man made things and there is no limitation of creativity.May be later that wonders can be change.<div><br /></div><div>I think the seven wonders of the world are:</div><div><br /></div><div>1- To See</div><div>2- To Hear</div><div>3- To Touch</div><div>4- To Taste</div><div>5- To Feel</div><div>6- To Laugh</div><div>7- To Love</div><div><br /></div><div>Only god can design this and these are the real wonders of the world.</div>Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-56444846069594065662010-10-05T00:24:00.000-07:002010-10-05T00:29:53.541-07:00Temple or MosqueFinally the ayodhaya verdict came and decision went to everyone favour.I hope everyone is satisfied after the court verdict.The day when court verdict was about to come we left our office premises before one hour.This day I felt like after 63 years of independence we are still insecure in our own country.People were trying to reach their home safely before court verdict.Most of the people left their work in between of this.We reached safely to our home; switched on the TV to the news channel and waited till the final court verdict came.This time you might have noticed one thing about media they didn't made hype of ayodhaya case.They were calm and waiting for court verdict.This time people of india also didn't take so much of intrest in this matter,they shown that there are so many things which are beyond to ram-babri masjid case and that is peace and that is very important to maintain always.I appreciate and wish that peace will continue till we are alive.Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-6882773601764149312010-09-23T22:24:00.000-07:002010-09-23T23:01:16.663-07:00I like travelling and you.What I have understood during travelling mentioned here below.<br />This world is like a book<br />if you do not travel, you read a page only.<br /><br />There are no foreign lands<br />It is the traveller only, who is foreign.<br /><br />The use of travelling is to see your imagination by reality and<br />instead of thinking how it may be, to see them as they are.<br /><br />He who does not travel does not know the value of life.<br /><br />Everyone knows this world is full of natural beauty, adventure and charm<br />but hardly we ever tried to feel it.<br /><br />A journey is best measured in freinds, rather than miles.<br /><br />You will always enjoy the travelling with the unknown person and his thoughts about the places, life, people, and culture.<br /><br />During travelling you will always have a chance to meet people like you, who belives in adventure, make new freinds, to know about the new palces and most important to share the new idea from one people to other people.<br /><br />When you travel, remember one thing foreign country is not designed to make you comfortable.<br />It is desinged to make its own people comfortable.<br /><br />Travelling means you do not have any fix plans and it is not intent on arriving.<br /><br />The best and most beautiful things in this world can be felt only with the heart.<br /><br />Travel makes a wise man better and a full worse.<br /><br />When you travel one place to another you know yourself much better than before travelling.Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-21521164706403967492010-09-23T22:10:00.000-07:002010-09-23T22:13:34.168-07:00Nothing is defined in this worldwe as a human being always follow the same path which is defined by someone or our<br />elders.From the childhood to young days we always copy the things like how to<br />comb,dress,talk and doing other things but never try to create the new example for the<br />society.In this world every single home has its own rule and regulation and being a family<br />member everyone has to follow it.To make the rule, discipline is not a bad idea but that<br />rule should have the flexibility and surrounding of freedom.Everyone should have freedom to<br />change the rule and regulation if he is able to modify the things in a better way beacuse,<br />that thing called creativity and there is no limit of craetivity.How well you represnt the<br />things infront of world is called creativity.The way the people get success in thier life<br />that path becomes their success path.But you can not say that, only this path will take you<br />to your destination. <br />Remember "A creative attitude is the fuel of progress and growth".Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-18520117925274188862010-09-15T19:52:00.000-07:002010-09-15T20:17:50.023-07:00Love and TimeOnce upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived: Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love.<br />One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink so all constructed their boats and left the place. Except for Love.Love was the only one who stayed their.<br />Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.<br />When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat.<br />Love said, "Richness, can you take me with you?"Richness answered, "No, I can't. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you.<br />"Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful boat. "Vanity, please help me!""I can't help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat," Vanity answered.<br />Sadness was also close by so Love asked, "Sadness, let me go with you.""Oh . . . Love, I am so sad and there is no place for you.Happiness passed by Love too but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.<br />Suddenly, there was a voice, "Come, Love, I will take you." It was stranger's voice. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the stranger where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the stranger went her own way. I was realizing how much was owed the stranger, Love asked Knowledge, another stranger, "Who Helped me?""It was Time," Knowledge answered."Time?" asked Love. "But why did Time help me?"Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love and knowledge is."<br />So moral of the story is you never know; when your time will get change.Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-75024585829488353562010-09-07T19:03:00.000-07:002010-09-07T21:45:06.057-07:00A Little DifferenceA little difference can make a great change in your life as well as others life also.<br />There was a man who used to go sea side daily in the morning and used to seat for sometime.One day he was walking on the side of the sea and saw a man on the other side of the sea, he was throwing something in to the water. He reach near to this person to check what he is throwing in to the sea water.He was surprised to see that man was throwing small fishes into sea water who had come out from sea due to water waves.When he looks around the side of the sea there were thousands of fishes at the side of sea water and they were going to die in some time.At last he asked to that person why you are throwing that small fishes in to the water because there are thousands of fishes are still left at the side of the sea and what difference it will be if you save some fishes from die. That gentleman replied politely see the sun is rising and sea waves will become silent in some time.So that I can't save the life of whole fishes and he suddenly bend down picks one fish and throws in to the water and said, but I made the difference in this fish life and only this things is very much satisfying me.<br /><p>Like wise god has given us the ability that, with the little try we can make a little difference in someone's life.Here you have to identify yourself with which ability of yours you can help others, you can give something to your society, you can give something to this world.Overall, this little try can satisfy your innersoul also. Now a days it's very difficult to made a big change in anyone life but we can start from little difference.</p><p>Judge yourself you have that capability to made it possible.</p>Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3230345343619830996.post-88719615298206306652010-08-15T07:00:00.001-07:002010-11-22T08:49:02.954-08:00I Have Realized ThatI Have Realized That........ <div><br /></div><div>No matter how many times I pray</div><div>I only get what I really deserve.</div><div><br /></div><div>When I was really ecstatic about something</div><div>There were never enough people to share with it.</div><div><br /></div><div>Words had always hurt me more than</div><div>The wounds I had suffered in life.</div><div><br /></div><div>An wonderful idea has always changed my life</div><div>So, always think before to take an important decision.</div><div><br /></div><div>Nothing is good or bad</div><div>It is up to you, how do you take it.</div><div><br /></div><div>If you want to know about yourself</div><div>put your ideas to do it, it will show you the real picture of your soul.</div><div><br /></div><div>I have always performed well</div><div>When I listened carefully.</div><div><br /></div><div>I am better</div><div>When I am silent.</div><div><br /></div><div>When, I was seriously trying to get the things, Things has always maintained a distance with me</div><div>But,when I was happily trying to get the things, things were always closer to me.</div><div><br /></div><div>Opportunity sooner or latter always came to me</div><div>When I really worked and wished for them.</div><div><br /></div><div>People with many interest live, not only longest, but always happiest.</div><div><br /></div><div>Happiness is not a matter of events, it depend on the tides of your mind.</div><div><br /></div><div>When, I was really confused and even, I was not in a position to take simple decision in my life</div><div>I always preferred to take a decision from heart not mind .</div><div><br /></div><div>When, I was confident</div><div>I really performed well in my life.</div><div><br /></div><div> </div><div></div><div></div><div>Whenever I was disturb, I always took the wrong decision</div><div>And whenever I was free, decision taken by me was appreciated by everyone.</div><div><br /></div><div>Don't promise anything when you are happy</div><div>Don't reply when you are angry</div><div>Don't decide anything when you are sad.(Remember this golden rule my friend)</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 14px; "><span class="Apple-style-span" >You have to work very hard to achieve something better in your life.<br />If you do well in your study in college days, whole life you will get reward for that but.........If you do not perform well in college days, whole life you have to work hard to prove yourself.</span></span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div></div>Ajay Kummar Singhhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06479890927725847876noreply@blogger.com0