Security is a Lie

Sometimes I think, I am having good enough experience to sustain the regular life, but still sometimes insecurity comes in the way.I don't know how this question arises of insecurity when everything is going good?
I realized...
It’s impossible to convince ourselves to not feel insecure, how can I ever guarantee that my life will be perfect? Insecurity is created because our future is uncertain and that’s a fact – life is uncertain 100%. There are no guarantees. So you have every reason to feel terribly insecure.

The truth is that security is a lie. There is no such thing called stability or security as far as life is concerned.
It meanders along at its own pace creating and destroying at the blink of an eye. When you can’t know for sure, with 100% certainty, what will happen to you the next day, is it not naive to look for security in life?

Improvement

We all have areas in our lives that need improvement–whether it’s our careers, relationships, fitness or just overall mental and emotional state. Although making changes in any of these categories sounds like a huge undertaking, it all starts with making goals and taking that first step. Sometimes even that sounds daunting and we need a little bit of inspiration before we can take any steps. That’s when it’s time to take some advice from people who are already on the self-improvement journey..and I am 100% sure it will help you !!!!!

KYA KAHU ZINDAGI TUMSE?

ज़िन्दगी इस  कदर  हमको  रुलाती  रही!

हर  ख़ुशी  पास  आने  से  पहले  दूर  जाती  रही !!

ग़म  से  नाता  था  शायद  अपना  पिछले  जनम  से !

तभी  तो  हर  ख़ुशी  ग़म  में  बदल  जाती  रही !!

चाहा  जो  कुछ  भी  हमने  ना  मिला  हमको!
एक  अधूरी  सी  चाहत  बन  के  रह  गया  सब  कुछ!!
की  थी  कोशिश  कभी  मैंने  भी  कुछ  जीतने  की !
वहा मेरी  किस्मत  मुझे  ही  हारती  रही!!

लड़  भी  लेते  हम  मुकदर  से  गर  कोई  अपना  साथ  होता !
और  बदल  भी  देते  हम  शायद  अपनी  तकदीर  को !!
पर  भागते रहे  जिस  मंजिल    को  पाने  की  खातिर !
वोह  मंजिल  भी  हमसे हमेशा  दूर  जाती  रही !!

ऐसा  नहीं  के  कोई  नहीं  था  हमारा  यहाँ !
हर  रिश्ता  है  बनाया  और  अपनाया  हमने !!
और  हर  रिश्ते  को  बनाने  की  खातिर  कोसिस  भी  की थी  हमने !

पर  शायद  कच्ची  रह  जाती  थी  गाँठ  हर  रिश्ते  की !
जो  थोडा  सा  खींचने  पे  ही  खुल  जाती  रही !!

बहुत  रोये  है  हम  हसने  के  बाद  हर  वक़्त !
और  बहते  भी  रहे  है  यह  पागल  आंसू  इन  आँखों  से

क्या  करू  झूठी  हसी  आती  नहीं  जिस  से  हर  गम  को  छुपा  सकू
फिर  भी    उम्मीद  में  जी  जाए रहे है   !!!!!!!!!!!

कभी अनसुलझी हुई पहेली सी लगती हो !

Jee Lo Zindagi Jee Bhar ke!

एक कल हमारे पीछे था एक कल हमारे बाद!
आज आज की बात करना हमेशा बस हमारे साथ!
हमसे ही कल बनेगा हमारा आज के अच्छे के बाद!
आज जितना खूबसूरत होगा उसका शायद जवाब न होगा कल के पास!
कल कुछ कल कर भी न पाए कर लो आज को तुम इतना आबाद !
... हम है तो है ये आज और रहेगा हमारा कल !
अगर aaj हम नहीं तो ना रहेगा हमारा कल आज के बाद !

So lets live in out today first to make our tomorrows better...... :)

हकीकत

ये ज़िन्दगी भी ना जाने क्या खेल खेलती रहती है
कभी लगता है अब तो मंजिल के पास है
फिर एक ही पल में दूरियाँ पैदा कर देती है
फिर भी ना जाने हम किस उम्मीद में ये आँस लगाये रहते है
की शायद आज नहीं तो कल हम जो चाहते है वो मिलेगा
और जीना का यही जस्बा आज नहीं तो कल हमे हमारी मंजिल तक पंहुचा देता है!!!!!!!!

The Excellence for own satisfaction not for others!

A German once visited a temple under construction where he saw a sculptor making an idol of God. Suddenly he noticed a similar idol lying nearby. Surprised, he asked the sculptor, "Do you need two statues of the same idol?" "No," said the sculptor without looking up, "We need only one, but the first one got damaged at the last stage." The gentleman examined the idol and found no apparent damage. "Where is the damage?" he asked. "There is a scratch on the nose of the idol." said the sculptor, still busy with his work. "Where are you going to install the idol?"

The sculptor replied that it would be installed on a pillar twenty feet high. "If the idol is that far, who is going to know that there is a scratch on the nose?" the gentleman asked... The sculptor stopped his work, looked up at the gentleman, smiled and said, "I will know it." The desire to excel is exclusive of the fact whether someone else appreciates it or not. "Excellence" is a drive from inside, not outside. Excellence is not for someone else to notice but for your own satisfaction and efficiency...